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We create intentional events to help you get off the apps and connect in person. Whether you’re coming solo or with a friend, there’s a format that makes it easy to show up and feel comfortable.
Pick which event type works best for you and find the next one coming up at the link or calendar below.
OUR EVENTS
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We pick a time and place and you show up and meet new people. It’s completely free to attend. We simply fill the bar with our mutuals who want to meet someone new :)
When you arrive, find our pink check-in table to grab color-coded stickers that tell others who you’re there to meet - friends, men, women, or everyone - so that it’s easy to know who’s looking for what.
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For our mutuals who find a packed bar at our Delete the Apps events a little intimidating. We ticket these events to cap attendance so that the environment is quieter and more intentional.
We check you in and then introduce you to a group of 4-6 mutuals. We provide conversation topics to get the conversation going and then we shuffle you to a new group every few minutes.
Sign up for an upcoming mixer on Eventbrite.
by attending any of our events you are agreeing to comply with our code of conduct, terms of service, and privacy policy
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at Two Wrongs Social Club | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over Two Wrongs at 8:00pm on Friday, June 19th to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | FRIEND Pitches + Bar Takeover | at Jackie's | Free
Meet a Mutual is our take on the trend where single people get presented to a live audience to get them dates! In this special edition, we're teaming up with Open* Invite to host pitches to help people make friends, network, find romance and MORE!
All you do is make a profile for your friend in a deck and then present it in person to a party of people hosted by a Meeting Mutuals & Open* Invite - in the Jackie's stadium room.
Here's how it works:
You, the friend, present your fabulous friend who you think is awesome - highlighting their personality, quirks, interests, and what makes them a great person - in a live presentation on a projector screen.
The presentation should be lighthearted and witty, kind of like a mini sales pitch or a dating profile, but with a personal touch.
It happens in real life! In front of an audience!
Include photos, videos, or fun facts to make the pitch more compelling.
How to participate:
Email us: Send us a Google Slides Deck (no PowerPoint, please!) pitching your single friend (with their permission) by June 20th. We will select a few Meet a Mutual decks to present at this event.
We'll let you know by June 20th if you've been selected as a presenter. We'll also have a waitlist just in case we have time for more presentations - we'll let you know if you should be prepared.
Attend Meet-A-Mutual on June 25th: Show up and check in with the Host before 7:30pm.
Social: Promote the event on your socials! Invite your mutuals out to support you and your friend :)
Agenda:
8:00pm: Arrive at Jackie's and pick up your stickers that tell everyone if you're single and who you're looking to date (men, women, or everyone)
8:30pm: Presentations start
9:00pm: Break for drink/bathroom/socializing
9:15pm: Presentations continue
10:00-11:00pm: Social hour - go say hi to the singles being pitched and hand off a You're Cute card if you want to connect with them after.
If you want to be a presenter, and present a friend to our live audience: email your presentation (Google Slide decks ONLY) to hello@meetingmutuals.com by June 20th. We will review it, and if selected, we'll let you know by June 20th.
All presentations are subject to approval. Meeting Mutuals reserves the right to refuse or remove any presentation that is offensive, inappropriate, misleading, or not aligned with the values or format of the event. By attending, presenting, or being presented, you agree to our Meet-a-Mutual Terms of Service.
By attending any of events you are agreeing to our terms of service, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
SEATTLE | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at a/stir | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over a/stir at 8:00pm on Friday, June 26th to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at NEVERMIND | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over Nevermind at 8:00pm on Saturday, June 27th to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at Jackie's| 21+
Portland singles, we're taking over Jackie's from 2-4pm on Sunday, June 14th to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at Brooklyn Carreta | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over Brooklyn Carreta at 8:00pm on Saturday, June 13th to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
SEATTLE | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at Roam | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over Roam in Ballard at 8:00pm on Friday, June 12th to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
The Meeting Mutuals Private Social | at The Downbeat | 21+
Portland, we’re throwing one of our Golden Ticket Parties on Thursday, June 11th at 6:00pm at The Downbeat .
It's a little different than our usual bar takeovers -
Expect an intentional crowd, elevated atmosphere, and conversations that go beyond small talk.
What makes this different?
Meeting Mutuals Private Social is a ticketed event.
Everyone in the room has been briefed on the intention of the event, and we personally help curate conversation and introductions 💅
It's a more dialed-in version of our bar takeover parties:
more intimate
actively hosted
intentional attendees
At the party you can expect
A complimentary welcome drink for the first 20 attendees.
Stickers to show what you’re looking for (dating or friends - you don't have to be single!)
Limited design “You’re Cute” cards just for our Private Socials.
Instant camera photo area
Hosts actively introducing you to people we think you should meet
A room where everyone has been chosen because they're friendly, interesting, and cute
Dress Code
Dress to impress - think: fancy dinner date / cocktail attire
This is a requirement. No everyday clothes, please.
Tickets
You can grab a Meeting MutualsPrivate Social Ticket for yourself for $30.
or
2 tickets for $40
We trust you to bring fun, interesting, and hot people like you :)
Getting a ticket:
gets you into this party
and puts you on our radar for future Private Socials
THERE IS A LIVE BAND that goes on at 8:00PM - there is a $10 cover charge to watch the band, which will go into effect at 8:00pm
See you there ✨
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at After Ours | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over After Ours at 5:00pm on Sunday, June 7th to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
SEATTLE | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at Revelry Room | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over Revelry Room at 7:00pm on Saturday, June 6th to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at White Owl Social Club | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over White Owl at 8:00pm on Friday, June 5th to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Pickleball Singles Night | at the People's Courts | 21+
Get Ready for the Most Unique Singles Event in Portland!
The People's Courts Singles Night is a chance for local singles come together for a fun evening of games, food & drinks. Here's a breakdown of what attendees can expect:
Ice Breaker:
Get to know other attendees! Break the ice with some fun prepared games led by your hosts.
Pickleball Scramble: A structured activity where participants play Pickleball in a fun and social setting. It includes:
Pickleball Ticket Holders should be able to serve, recieve and return the ball & understand general pickleball rules. (The Pickleball Ticket is not designed for those who have never played.)
Please let us know 1 day in advance if you are unable to attend. Much time and effort goes into creating the roster for the scramble.
Other Games: Unlimited gameplay of various recreational games including:
Cornhole
Bocce
Ping Pong
Foosball
Beer Pong
Additional Fun:
Giant Jenga & Connect 4
Board games and cards available throughout the venue.
Complimentary snacks are provided with the purchase of your ticket.
Additional Details:
Age Range Suggestion: 26 - 45
Atmosphere:
Laid-back and fun, designed to facilitate connections and enjoyable interactions among singles in the local area.
We're excited to cater to both Pickleball enthusiasts and those preferring other social activities. It's a great opportunity for attendees to meet new people, enjoy games, and potentially make meaningful connections in a relaxed setting.
About Meeting Mutuals:
We keep it simple: we tell you the time and place, and you show up to meet new people. Meeting Mutuals throws weekly free dating parties at bars plus fun ticketed mixers and activity-based events like this one we're excited to host with The People’s Courts! It's "like a dating app but in the wild" - less swiping, more connection.
Find our full calendar of upcoming events on Eventbrite and check out what our events look like on Instagram. See you soon :)
PORTLAND | Dating Profile Presentations + Bar Takeover | at Jackie's | Free
Meet a Mutual is our take on the trend where single people get presented to a live audience to get them dates!
All you do is make a live dating app profile for your friend in a deck and then present it in person to a party of people hosted by a Meeting Mutuals - in the Jackie's stadium room.
Here's how it works:
You, the friend, present your fabulous single friend who you think is awesome - highlighting their personality, quirks, interests, and what makes them a great catch - in a live presentation on a projector screen.
The presentation should be lighthearted and witty, kind of like a mini sales pitch or a dating profile, but with a personal touch.
It happens in real life! In front of an audience!
Include photos, videos, or fun facts to make the pitch more compelling.
How to participate:
Email us: Send us a Google Slides Deck (no PowerPoint, please!) pitching your single friend (with their permission) by May 26th. We will select a few Meet a Mutual decks to present at this event.
We'll let you know by May 27th if you've been selected as a presenter. We'll also have a waitlist just in case we have time for more presentations - we'll let you know if you should be prepared.
Attend Meet-A-Mutual on May 28th: Show up and check in with the Host before 7:30pm.
Social: Promote the event on your socials! Invite your mutuals out to support you and your friend :)
Agenda:
8:00pm: Arrive at Jackie's and pick up your stickers that tell everyone if you're single and who you're looking to date (men, women, or everyone)
8:30pm: Presentations start
9:00pm: Break for drink/bathroom/socializing
9:15pm: Presentations continue
10:00-11:00pm: Social hour - go say hi to the singles being pitched and hand off a You're Cute card if you want to connect with them after.
If you want to be a presenter, and present a friend to our live audience: email your presentation (Google Slide decks ONLY) to hello@meetingmutuals.com by May 26th. We will review it, and if selected, we'll let you know by May 27th.
All presentations are subject to approval. Meeting Mutuals reserves the right to refuse or remove any presentation that is offensive, inappropriate, misleading, or not aligned with the values or format of the event. By attending, presenting, or being presented, you agree to our Meet-a-Mutual Terms of Service.
By attending any of events you are agreeing to our terms of service, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
SEATTLE | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at Mountain Room | 21+
Seattle singles, we're taking over the ICONIC Mountain Room: Bar at the R at 6:00pm on Sunday, May 24th to meet new people in person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 6-8pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms of service, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at Nevermind | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over Nevermind at 8:00pm on Friday, May 22nd to DELETE THE APPS and meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Singles Mixer | Thorns Game - Pub Beer Patio Takeover| 21+
Meeting Mutuals x Portland Thorns Singles Mixer ⚽️❤️
Wish you could just show up somewhere and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and that they’re actually single)? That’s exactly what we do every week - and this time, we’re doing it inside Providence Park with the Portland Thorns.
We’re doing our signature bar takeover singles party at a live Thorns match, with a dedicated singles mixer on the Pub Beer Patio right behind one of the goals.
What to expect:
A casual, unstructured singles mixer (no speed dating or activities)
A crowd of Meeting Mutuals members + other local singles
Full access to the Portland Thorns game from a prime social viewing area
One complimentary drink voucher
Music, drinks, and plenty of opportunities to meet people
Event Details:
📍 Providence Park (Pub Beer Patio)
📅 Wednesday, May 20, 2026
⏰ Mixer starts at 5:30 PM and goes through the end of the game (~9:00 PM)
🎟️ IMPORTANT – Tickets Required
This is not a free event and tickets are NOT sold through Eventbrite.
👉 You must purchase your ticket directly through the Thorns here:
https://seatgeek.com/portland-thorns-fc-tickets/national-womens-soccer/2026-05-20-7-pm/17963316?sgo_ac=SINGLESMIXER
Tickets are $30 total
Includes both the game + access to the singles mixer + a drink voucher
No additional ticket needed
When you get there:
Head to the Pub Beer Patio and find our hosts at the pink check-in table
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie your name and number
And that’s it. These parties are what you make them so don’t be shy. We attract a welcoming crowd, so get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets
🎟 $30 ticket required (includes game access - see link above)
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending any of events you are agreeing to our terms of service, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
SEATTLE | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at a/stir | 21+
Seattle singles, we're taking over a/stir at 8:00pm on Friday, May 15th to meet new people in person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 8-10pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms of service, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | PROMSI Event Takeover | at OMSI | 21+
Meeting Mutuals x PROMSI (OMSI After Dark) 🚢💫
We’re crashing prom!
We’re popping up at PROMSI (OMSI After Dark’s Titanic-themed night) and setting up right by the DJ/dance floor for our usual Delete the Apps takeover.
We’ll have:
Special themed stickers so you can signal what you’re looking for (friends or your dating preference)
Flowers to give out to your crush
A group that’s actually down to meet new people
Important: this is NOT a ticket.
We’re just announcing that we’ll be there.
You’ll need to grab your ticket through OMSI here:
https://omsi.edu/events/omsi-after-dark-promsi/
Once you’re in, come find us by the dance floor.
See you there :)
PORTLAND | Group Speed Dating | at Brooklyn Carreta | 21+
Portland singles, meet us at Brooklyn Carreta on Thursday, May 14th at 6:30pm for a Mutuals Mixer.
Like our free bar takeover parties but want a little help introducing yourself? That’s what our Mutuals Mixers are for!
We tell you the time and place, you buy a ticket, and we introduce you to a new group of people every few minutes.
How it works:
Check in at 6:30pm and get your color-coded stickers to tell everyone who you'd like to meet at the event (friends and/or your dating preference: men, women, or everyone)
We'll introduce you to a group of 3 other mutuals and hand off conversation starters
Get to know your group
After about 10 minutes, we’ll call time and shuffle you to a new table
Repeat a few times and, by the end of the night, you’ll have met tons of new people
Grab a (limited quantity) wingman/woman/person 2-for-1 deal and bring a friend to meet new people together!
🎟 Tickets: $30
👥 Capped attendance
👯 Come solo or with a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms of service, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
Golden Ticket | a Private Party | at LULU | 21+
Portland, we’re throwing one of our Golden Ticket Parties on Saturday, May 9 at 8:30pm at LULU .
It's a little different than our usual bar takeovers -
It’s a smaller, more intentional party filled with people our team (and our mutuals) have personally invited.
What makes this different?
Golden Ticket Parties are mostly invite-only.
Everyone in the room has been invited by us or vouched for by someone we trust.
It's a more dialed-in version of our bar takeover parties:
more intimate
actively hosted
hand-picked attendees
How it works
We've given our mutuals a handful of physical Golden Tickets. We told them to hand them out in the wild to people who they think are fun, interesting, and/or hot. Anyone who receives a physical Golden Ticket gets into the party with their crew for free.
We'll also be handing out Golden Tickets at our usual events. If you show up and stand out, you might get one.
If you don't receive one in person, there are a limited quantity of tickets available here on Eventbrite. A purchased ticket gets you entry into this party and, once we've gotten to know you there, a chance to be gifted a Golden Ticket for the next one.
At the party you can expect
A complimentary welcome drink
Stickers to show what you’re looking for (dating or friends - you don't have to be single!)
Limited design “You’re Cute” cards just for Golden Ticket Parties
Instant camera photo area
Hosts actively introducing you to people we think you should meet
A room where everyone has been chosen because they're friendly, interesting, and cute
Dress Code
Dress to impress - think: fancy dinner date / cocktail attire
This is a requirement. No everyday clothes, please
Tickets
You can grab a Golden Ticket for yourself (and your crew) for $50 here on Eventbrite. Only one ticket is needed per group but use it wisely! We trust you to bring fun, interesting, and hot people like you :) Only 10 tickets are available for purchase.
Getting a ticket:
gets you into this party
and puts you on our radar for future Golden Ticket invites
See you there ✨
PORTLAND | Free Singles Bar Takeover Party | at Wonderlove | 21+
Portland, this week we're taking over Wonderlove at 7:00pm on Friday, May 8th to meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 7-9pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at QD's Bar | 21+
Portland singles, we're taking over QD's Bar a at 8:00pm on Saturday, May 2nd to meet new people in person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 7-9pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
SEATTLE | Delete the Apps | FREE Singles Bar Takeover Party | at Roam | 21+
Seattle, this week we're taking over Roam at 7:00pm on Friday, May 1st to meet new people in-person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 7-9pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Meet a Mutual Presentations plus Bar Takeover Party | at Jackie's | Free
Meet a Mutual is our take on the pitch a friend trend where our mutuals give a presentation to sell their friend to an audience.
All you've gotta do is make your friend a live dating app profile and then present it in person to a party of people hosted by a Meeting Mutuals - in the Jackie's stadium room!
Here's how it works:
You, the friend, present your fabulous single friend who you think is awesome - highlighting their personality, quirks, interests, and what makes them a great catch - in a live presentation on a projector screen.
The presentation should be lighthearted and witty, kind of like a mini sales pitch or a dating profile, but with a personal touch.
It happens in real life! In front of an audience!
Include photos, videos, or fun facts to make the pitch more compelling.
How to participate:
Email us: Send us a Google Slides Deck pitching your single friend (with their permission) by April 26th. We will select around 10 Meet-a-Mutual decks to present at this event.
We'll let you know by April 28th if you've been selected as a presenter. We'll also have a waitlist just in case we have time for more presentations - we'll let you know if you should be prepared.
Attend Meet-A-Mutual on April 30th: Show up and check in with the Host at 6:30pm.
Social: Promote the event on your socials! Invite your mutuals out to support you and your friend :)
Agenda:
7:00pm: Arrive at Jackie's and pick up your stickers that tell everyone if you're single and who you're looking to date (men, women, or everyone)
7:30pm: Pitches start
8:15pm: Break for drink/bathroom/socializing
8:30pm: Pitches continue
9:00-10:00pm: Social hour - go say hi to the singles being pitched and hand off a You're Cute card if you want to connect with them after.
If you want to be a presenter, and pitch a mutual to our live audience: email your presentation (Google Slide decks ONLY) to hello@meetingmutuals.com by April 26th. We will review it, and if selected, we'll let you know by April 28th.
All pitches are subject to approval. Meeting Mutuals reserves the right to refuse or remove any presentation that is offensive, inappropriate, misleading, or not aligned with the values or format of the event.
PORTLAND | Singles Mixer | Meeting Mutuals x Portland Thorns | 21+
Meeting Mutuals x Portland Thorns Singles Mixer ⚽️❤️
Wish you could just show up somewhere and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and that they’re actually single)? That’s exactly what we do every week - and this time, we’re doing it inside Providence Park with the Portland Thorns.
We’re doing our signature bar takeover singles party at a live Thorns match, with a dedicated singles mixer on the Pub Beer Patio right behind one of the goals.
What to expect:
A casual, unstructured singles mixer (no speed dating or activities)
A crowd of Meeting Mutuals members + other local singles
Full access to the Portland Thorns game from a prime social viewing area
Music, drinks, and plenty of opportunities to meet people
Event Details:
📍 Providence Park (Pub Beer Patio)
📅 Wednesday, April 29, 2026
⏰ Mixer starts at 5:30 PM and goes through halftime (~8:00 PM)
🎟️ IMPORTANT – Tickets Required
This is not a free event and tickets are NOT sold through Eventbrite.
👉 You must purchase your ticket directly through the Thorns here:
https://seatgeek.com/portland-thorns-fc-tickets/national-womens-soccer/2026-04-29-7-pm/17963073?sgo_ac=SINGLESMIXER&quantity=1
Tickets are $30 total
Includes both the game + access to the singles mixer
No additional ticket needed
When you get there:
Head to the Pub Beer Patio and find our hosts at the pink check-in table
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie your name and number
And that’s it. These parties are what you make them so don’t be shy. We attract a welcoming crowd, so get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets
🎟 $30 ticket required (includes game access - see link above)
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending any of events you are agreeing to our terms of service, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at White Owl | 21+
Portland singles, we're taking over White Owl Social Club at 7:00pm on Friday, April 24th to meet new people in person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 7-9pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
SEATTLE | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at a/stir | 21+
Seattle singles, we're taking over a/stir at 8:00pm on Saturday, April 18th to meet new people in person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 7-9pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at Brooklyn Carreta | 21+
Portland singles, we're taking over Brooklyn Carreta at 8:00pm on Saturday, April 18th to meet new people in person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 7-9pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Group Speed Dating | at The Downbeat | 21+
Portland singles, meet us at The Downbeat on Thursday, April 16th at 5:30pm for a Mutuals Mixer. Like our free bar takeover parties but want a little help introducing yourself? That’s what our Mutuals Mixers are for!
We tell you the time and place, you buy a ticket, and we introduce you to a new group of people every few minutes.
How it works:
Check in at 5:30pm and get your color-coded stickers to tell everyone who you'd like to meet at the event (friends, men, women, or no specific preference)
Pick a conversation card with a topic to get the conversation going
Sit with your group and get chatting
After about 15 minutes, we’ll call time and shuffle you to a new table
Repeat a few times and, by the end of the night, you’ll have met tons of new people without ever feeling stuck or awkward
Grab a wingman/woman/person 2-for-1 deal and bring a friend to meet new people together!
🎟 Tickets: $20
👥 Capped attendance
👯 Come solo or with a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Group Speed Dating | at Portland Night Market | 21+
Portland singles, meet us at Portland Night Market on Friday, April 10th at 6:30pm for a Mutuals Mixer. Like our free bar takeover parties but want a little help introducing yourself? That’s what our Mutuals Mixers are for!
We tell you the time and place, you buy a ticket, and we introduce you to a new group of people every few minutes.
How it works:
Check in at 6:30pm and get your color-coded stickers to tell everyone who you'd like to meet at the event (friends, men, women, or no specific preference)
Pick a conversation card with a topic to get the conversation going
Sit with your group and get chatting
After about 15 minutes, we’ll call time and shuffle you to a new table
Repeat a few times and, by the end of the night, you’ll have met tons of new people without ever feeling stuck or awkward
Grab a wingman/woman/person 2-for-1 deal and bring a friend to meet new people together!
🎟 Tickets: $20
👥 Capped attendance
👯 Come solo or with a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Free Bar Takeover Dating Party | at Sugar Hill | 21+
Portland singles, we're taking over Sugar Hill at 8:00pm on Saturday, April 4th to meet new people in person.
What is a “Delete the Apps” Bar Takeover Party?
Wish you could just show up to a bar and know that everyone there is open to meeting new people (and if they're single or not)? Every week, we pick a time and a place to take over a bar to do just that - create an open space to meet new friends and lovers. It's totally free to join. We tell you the time and place and you simply show up and join the party.
When you get there:
Go say hi to our hosts at the pink check-in table anytime between 7-9pm
Grab color-coded stickers that tell people who you’re there to meet (friends, men, women, or everyone)
Write a topic on our “Talk ___ To Me” stickers to make it easy for someone to approach you and start conversation
Pick up a few “You’re Cute” cards - they’re blank on the back so you can give that cutie across the bar your name and phone number :)
And that’s it! These parties are what you make them so don't be shy - we attract a welcoming crowd - get out there and meet your people in person.
💌 No age brackets (but we usually see mid-20s to mid-40s)
🎟 Free & open to the public
👯 Come solo or bring a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
PORTLAND | Group Speed Dating | at Alchemy Cider | 21+
Portland singles, meet us at Alchemy Cider on Thursday, April 2nd at 6:30pm for a Mutuals Mixer. Like our free bar takeover parties but want a little help introducing yourself? That’s what our Mutuals Mixers are for!
We tell you the time and place, you buy a ticket, and we introduce you to a new group of people every few minutes.
How it works:
Check in at 6:30pm and get your color-coded stickers to tell everyone who you'd like to meet at the event (friends, men, women, or no specific preference)
Pick a conversation card with a topic to get the conversation going
Sit with your group and get chatting
After about 15 minutes, we’ll call time and shuffle you to a new table
Repeat a few times and, by the end of the night, you’ll have met tons of new people without ever feeling stuck or awkward
Grab a wingman/woman/person 2-for-1 deal and bring a friend to meet new people together!
🎟 Tickets: $20
👥 Capped attendance
👯 Come solo or with a friend
See you soon :)
By attending our events you are agreeing to our terms & conditions, disclaimers, privacy policy, and code of conduct.
Golden Ticket Party | at Two Wrongs | 21+
An intentionally curated mixer for people worth meeting.